September 15 marked the one year anniversary of Hope’s crossing of the Rainbow Bridge.
Hope left a mark on my life and many others she came in contact with. She was a species in herself–one of a kind. She LIVED with her all and embraced life every moment of her existence. She taught me how to LIVE. Even now she’s left a marker on my life. I feel the Essence of Hope around me and it pushes me forward…because I know she would want me to continue to LIVE with my all.
Hope is the thing with feathers, that perches in the soul, and sings the tune without words, and never stops at all. ~Emily Dickinson
I love you and miss you my dear, crazy girl!
…has its challenges.
To start, the world looks different every day. One day a shoe is a big monster larger than you and the next it is an enticing chew toy to drag around. One day human legs appear as very tall trees. The next they are tunnels to run through. Some day those legs will hopefully attach to a human requiring unobstructed motion to walk without tripping.
The second is body awareness. Puppies direct themselves with their nose. As newborns they propel themselves nose first to their mother’s nipple to nurse. They are driven by the intuition of scent and mouth. Their eyes and ears are closed, so that is what guides them as they learn to creep, walk, and run. The body just follows along. At 15 weeks ears and eyes are opened, but its all still directed by their nose. Only now their extremely long nose is followed by a much larger body very capable of tripping up those silly, unsuspecting humans. They have very little idea of how to actually control that body. Where the nose goes, somehow the rest follows.
Add the two together and bring in the newest challenge…
Why, we ask, are stairs such a challenge for a pup seemingly fearless and game to try anything? For starters, the stairs to my apartment aren’t normal stairs. They are the metal, slatted, uneven, rickety and four stories of echos and shadows in a cramped external stair-well. From the parking lot it’s 3.5 stories of stairs. Fortunately from the street entrance, there is only half a flight.
SEE HOW THESE STAIRS APPEAR AT PUPPY LEVEL???
If you’ve only been on this earth for all of 15 weeks is this something you would feel excited and confident to attempt? From this perspective it doesn’t even look like there is solid ground to step on!
Further, stair climbing takes coordination, something a gangly, growing pup lacks. Domino understood to move his front feet to the first landing, but he had no idea how to step up with his hind legs.
During our Monday visit, the stairs didn’t work. He was adjusting to me and the city, so instead of making it a focus I carried him up and down. He is a big boy and that wasn’t going to work during the weekend visit. Stairs became a priority training activity. Before he arrived I transformed my staircase to appear sturdier and more inviting to a pup.With these less intimidating stairs along with the work Brigadoon did with him in the past week he was able go down just fine and much more comfortable with up. He still just didn’t know how to move his hind to push himself up.
Adjacent to my apartment there is a conference center with terraced gardens. There are all types of stairs from tiny 3 inch steps to full sized concrete open staircases with steep decreases and everything in between. So starting with the 3 inch, we then moved to sets of 5-inch single steps. We worked those for quite a while and then moved to a 2 stepper. During the weekend he grew more and more confident. 5 steps, 7 steps, 15 steps! His confidence grew and his understanding of body movement. By the end of the weekend he was breezing up my own staircase with ease!
Domino is an ACE! I am so proud of him. He still isn’t quite sure of his hind legs or body but I saw a lot of progress just over the weekend–both with the stairs and walking in a straight line. For that I used the T-Touch Balanced Walking technique connecting my leash to both his collar and harness giving him body awareness and input. Loose leash walking right by my side, but without running into me became a breeze in a very short time!
Domino, you are a VERY GOOD puppy!
After the successful Monday visit, Denise asked if I would like to take Domino for the weekend while she was doing team training. Sooo… I had the puppy once again! This time overnight from Thursday until Sunday. I knew quite a bit more about him and was a whole lot more confident. The plan was to have an easy, relaxing weekend just to get to know each other. No major trips to shopping centers!
Having a puppy is a lot of work, but he really is a sweet pup. He lounged in the dog bed at my feet, followed me around, and chewed on his chewy. He is completely house trained which is amazing, but his bladder will only hold for 2 hours so we had a lot of trips out side to ‘Hurry’. He is great at going immediately on command which is very nice.The stairs to get out to ‘Hurry’ were an issue, but that is another story.
We went out for walks and short training excursions at the conference center behind my house. We practiced stairs, and loose leash walking without running into me, and different body awareness exercises. He was introduced to more sounds and experiences of Seattle life including a venture to a 5 way intersection. He did great. He is highly distract-able, but has some very solid nerves. The distract-ability will fade with age and experience.
At home we worked on retrieves for fun. He could retrieve a pen for me until his ‘must chew’ impulse kicked in. I set up some interesting obstacles/experiences for him to explore–like a baby gate on the ground. He is willing to try pretty much anything! It was loads of fun.
Mostly we just got to know one another. Even as a puppy, it is shocking how different his temperament is from Hope’s. Hope was a extremist, go getter, drama queen. He is a laid back thinker. He is MUCH slower to follow through with commands but he is much more likely to offer the actual behavior I asked for instead of offering whatever is the quickest/easiest. His learning is a very different process. He is curious by observation and then action. Hope had to work hard to harness her impulsiveness. It will be interesting to see how he develops. He is yet to hit the teenage stage and that is where my memories of Hope begin.
After both of us are rested up, I will be looking forward to another visit. Right now I am still worn out from this one. Exhausted, but with hopes for a good future.
Because of my needs and his disposition, he is tentatively matched as my prospective service dog partner. He is a cute little guy,but still such a baby.
Born May 8, he is not quite 4 months old. Brigadoon usually does not match pups at such a young age, but he shows great potential. A tentative match now will allow the two of us to spend time with one another and allow him to adapt to my lifestyle, apartment living in crazy Seattle, while undergoing his two years of training.
On Monday Domino came for his first day visit. It was somewhat last minute, and I became extremely nervous about having a puppy in the house. I went on a manic ‘puppy proof my house’ and threw everything in the bedroom that might remotely be chew worthy. Its been a long time since I have been around a puppy and I was expecting a ‘bull in a china shop’ puppy springing off the walls.
My preparation was a bit extreme. He is a pretty mellow, quiet, gentle, sweet, engaging, little shadow of a puppy. I knew he was teething, but this was last moment and I didn’t have a chewy for him. I probably over-worried about the teething that after realizing the kong was too large for his little mouth. He taste-tested my table, floor, clothes, and wicker toy basket (very alluring with all sorts of wood fibers sticking out) but quickly redirected as soon as verbally reminded him, well before he started gnawing. He really did want to please!
I decided it was necessary to get him a chew toy immediately. The pet store is about 3/4 mi away, 1.5 miles round trip, a very simple walk on a walking trail. RIGHT! Walking with a 14 week old puppy who has never been to Seattle before is vastly different than making a quick trip to the store with a well-seasoned Assistance Partner! Everything is new to puppy. He wasn’t fearful, but man was he ever distracted.He wasn’t straining against his leash, or pulling me in different directions, he just wasn’t walking in a straight line and was over-consumed by all the new sights, sounds, people, bikes, trucks, store windows, poles, dogs…
Once we made it to the University Village (a very large outdoor shopping mall) I figured we could sit at the water fountain and relax. Fountains and all the kids running in/out/around the fountain were another ‘new.’ So was the toddler that dashed up to him. It took him about a minute of distracted watching to lay down. Once he was planted at my feet, he wasn’t moving.
After our rest, he was introduced to the elevator. He hopped right on and OMG… The. Floor. Moves. Still no tail tucked or frozen in position. The pet store was amazing for him. I was drained so I sat on the floor with Domino in my lap to take a rest and for him to take it all in. He was fairly controlled and reliable and ‘down’ after about 30 seconds of acclimating.
It was an exhausting walk home for both of us. I was over-done and this was his first trip to Seattle and probably the longest walk in his entire little life. He was a great sport. Of course after the quest for the chewy he was far too exhausted to actually chew it. Both of us passed out on my bed, cuddled together and took a nap.
Domino really showed his potential on Monday. He is extremely resilient and adaptable. Exactly what is needed for a service dog. We have high hopes for this boy. I hope he does make it in the program. I could see a future together…
The absolute best public service announcement I have ever seen. Ever.
It’s from Norway, so you will have to read the captions but it is well worth the effort!
As a service dog partner I have experienced:
- People petting my dog (of course).
- People barking, meowing, making kissing noises/baby talk at my dog.
- Crawling on the floor, attempting to romp with my dog.
- People throwing food AT my dog (I have even had people try to give my dog chocolate which is dog poison).
- People making an effort to step on my dog.
- People saying “I know I shouldn’t distract you, but I can’t help it” as they pet and coo at my dog.
Now, here is the shocker… you better sit down…
ALL OF THESE THINGS HAVE BEEN DONE BY ADULTS!!!
Children are the easy ones. They are used to being educated and corrected on their behavior. They are fascinated to learn and once they are informed, very respectful. It is so cute to watch a young child educated their parents about service dogs and how they are working and shouldn’t be distracted. Further, I must extend a BLESS YOU to all parents who educate and make sure their children do not interfere with a working dog. You are my most favorite strangers ever! We may never exchange a word, just possibly a ‘Thank You’ nod, but when you are at your wits end you can remember how appreciated you are by a disabled person with an assistance dog!
Adults, on the other hand, tend to take offense when asked not to distract my dog. They accuse me of abusing her because I do not allow her to interact with them. They do everything they can to catch her attention, sometimes claiming they are ‘testing her. And frankly, it looks pretty idiotic when a grown man is on the ground crawling around and barking at a dog–especially one who is actively ignoring him!
The facts: Assistance Dogs out with their handlers need to focus on their handler as well as their job at hand. Even when they appear to be resting they still need to remain focused and in work mode. When you intentionally distract an assistance dog from their duties, it can be dangerous for both the handler and the dog. I understand many people love dogs and are curious about what exactly Assistance Dogs do, but it is challenging enough for me, as an individual with a disability, to get out without the pressure of public education and running interference.
Assistance dogs get PLENTY of petting, love, affection, treats, and play time when they are ‘off duty’. They are highly valued members of the family. They enjoy their jobs and their life. Please show respect for what they do by giving them space and not distracting them from their very important service.
It’s been nearly a year since the loss of Hope. Looking back the signs came on so suddenly–most of her summer was full of fun and adventure with my brother, sister, and niece visiting. More than anything Hope loved her people and each day brought people and adventure.
I suspect the mass growing in her stomach already caused discomfort, but she was such a stoic dog and there were no signs until she randomly started vomiting her meals in August. At first we thought it was another food intolerance because she did just fine on bland meals until switched back to kibble. My vet thought the same as all standard tests came back normal. In the end the endoscopy reported a cancerous mass blocking the stomach exit, trapping whole kibble whereas the blended diet was passing through.
It all happened so fast. Less than two weeks from diagnosis she was gone–a little over a month since the symptoms started. She kept her HOPE attitude until the end, and I was allowed time to say goodbye. She even de-stuffed an indestructible toy in her last days. My friend Kara came out to support me as I helped my best friend cross the Rainbow Bridge.
Loosing a pet is extremely painful for anyone. They love you when you feel unlovable, they listen when you feel ignored, they forgive your faults without grudge. To them you can do no wrong. With an assistance dog partnership, it is even more. Hope was my best friend, family, and constant companion. She was also my eyes, my ears, my sense of stability and safety.
With her I ‘learned to walk’ and enter the world as an artist, as an adult, as an individual. I relied on her to assist me in making my way in this world. When she was yanked from my side, it really felt like I lost an appendage. I knew she was trained to assist me, but I had absolutely no idea how much I relied on her until she was missing. We worked in tandem–a nonverbal give and take, ebb and flow. Much of our relationship was a subconscious mutual trust. I cared for her and she cared for me.
I know there will never be another Hope. My new partnership will be different. It will take time to develop our own language and get to the point where we can finish each others sentences. I liken it to loosing the leg I learned to walk on; then having to relearn walking with a prosthetic. I am not saying my next partnership will never be as ‘perfect’ as Hope. Anyone who knew Hope also knew she had her
flaws challenges. They made her enduring and maddening at the same time. The next dog will have different strengths and different quirks. I don’t want another Hope. She was one of a kind.
This print run has meant so much to me because it is my memorial to Hope. It also allows Hope to push me forward in hopes of a better future. After her death my artistic process came to a standstill. I didn’t paint, I barely drew, and my printing press was covered with dust. It took this project to give me the push I needed to keep going. Its been a very therapeutic process as I remember her with fondness–the good times and difficult times. We went through so much together.
As the anniversary of her death looms, I find myself facing another wave of grief… I still miss my Hope soo much.
I’ve been exhausted and struggling to write here as we approach the one year anniversary of Hope’s passing. Instead of pushing to make that topic my next blog post here, I am just going to do a quick update. There is lots going on:
I believe I have reached my 10% mark for my fundraising goal! I am unsure at this moment what the exact total is, but I believe I have now passed $750. Thank you everyone for your continued support.
Maple Leaf Life featured Hope and me on their blog about the goings-on in Maple Leaf Neighborhood. Thank you Mike and Cloud City for continuing to get the word out.
Prints were sent out last Tuesday and the next batch will be sent out either this Tuesday or the following. Plus I think I figured out how to use the email updates. I hope so. If you ordered a print by Monday, Aug 8 but have not received one, please contact me. I want to make sure you get your print!
I am continuing to stretch into this era of social networking. I have a list of things to figure out to make this go further (facebook, twitter, some widgets I need to figure out how to install). These things do not come naturally to me so I am slow and it gives me massive headaches. If you are a networking natural, feel free to network for me to your hearts content. I will always appreciate that as I slowly catch up!
Finally, I did get up to Brigadoon last week to meet with Denise and meet a puppy prospect! That is another story in itself. Boy am I behind. I will include a photo here as a teaser…
I am exhausted and emotionally drained. I think I will be taking a break today and possibly tomorrow. Apologies to those who are awaiting an email. I fully intend to respond as soon as my brain begins to cooperate. Until then I will sew more cat blankets for the kitty rescue. The kitties don’t even care if they are cut crooked and have jagged seams!
Cloud City Coffee has kindly volunteered to exhibit my prints and help with my fundraising efforts. They are located in the in Seattle’s Maple Leaf neighborhood, just south of Northgate, at the corner of 88th and Roosevelt.
Hope was a ‘regular’ at Cloud City for many years. All my medical appointments are in the area, and she knew the route to and from my multiple weekly appointments without a slip. When Hope died, Cloud City lost that ray of sunshine. I know Hope would be pleased to have her face on their art wall, leaving her mark even after passing on.
The process of choosing your own print at Cloud City is simple. All the prints available are hanging on clothes pins (with a few in a basket). Just remove your chosen print from the wall and fill out a ‘commitment card’ located in the basket and place the card in the envelope pinned to the basket. At your convenience you can pay online– go to my website and make a donation for your chosen print. If you would rather pay by check, you can leave the check made out to ADAP with the commitment card in the envelope, or you can mail the check directly to Karl’s Kids.
Of course while you are at Cloud City I suggest treating yourself to a drink. I get a single grande mocha with whip. I am addicted to their whip cream. They say it has a secret ingredient. Their baked good, soups, and sandwiches are all amazing and definitely worth a taste.
For my knitting friends, NorthEnd Knitters meet every Saturday at Cloud City. One of my goals once I have my new dog is to be able to spend Saturdays at my favorite shop participating in one of my favorite hobbies with a group of fiber enthusiasts.
If you know of any other venues willing to help in my fundraising efforts by allowing exhibition space, please contact me. I am appreciative of all networking during this process, so send me a note if you have any ideas on how I can reach a larger audience.
Cloud City Coffee in Maple Leaf
8801 Roosevelt Way NE, Seattle, WA 98115
Two summers ago I had the opportunity to visit the traveling Hatch Exhibit at the Experience Music Project. Hatch is the world’s oldest working letterpress shop. They designed and printed for major music icons, political campaigns, and advertisement posters since 1879 –well before the creation of digital images. They are still in business today. Check out this amazing video to learn more!
As a printmaker, this was a dream come true! It was the working, breathing history of my art. The woodblocks, the inks, the posters, the ‘happy accidents’. Nothing was ever thrown away and the same machines and blocks are still used today. My favorite were the ‘happy accidents’–the paper used to test and register the run before starting. To conserve paper the same sheets were used over and over and over again. Over time they turned themselves into their own piece of work, unique in every way.
Without Hope, there is no way I could ever have managed to see this exhibit. First of all, it was ‘First Thursday’–the only day the EMP is free to the public. It was noisy, overwhelming, and crowded. I am not such a rock music fan, but there was no escape from the loud, pounding music. The crowds were so thick it felt like a mosh pit. The Hatch Exhibit itself was quiet and basically empty, but getting there was a nightmare.
There was one simple, yet useful, task of Hope’s that saved me. The simple words ‘Follow [name].’ On that day it was my brother in law, ‘Follow Adam’. As we weaved through the crowds Hope’s nose was stuck like glue to the back of Adam’s leg. When someone rammed between us and Adam, Hope was right back locating his leg even if it took navigating around people to do so. Both my sister and brother got lost multiple times, but I did not. I had Hope. I had safety. I did not have to worry about searching the crowds, finding my group, attending to my surroundings. I shut my mind down and trusted my dog…otherwise it really would have been too much. I wouldn’t have been able to make it.
I look forward to the time when I can take these adventures once again. I am confident the new dog in the future will lend me the assistance to do this and so much more!
For those interested in purchasing their own custom print of “Hope Springs Eternal,” my Online Store is open with a selection of prints for you to choose from!! To choose a custom print, simply go to the on-line store, click to “Hope Print Line” and select your favorite from the variety of hand printed, no-two-are-alike prints.
If you wish to give above the suggested print amount, I have added a Donations selection so you can do so at the same time. Unfortunately, the software I am using for donations doesn’t allow individuals to choose a variable donation amount, so currently donation values may be made in any quantity of $5, $25 or $100. Thank you again for any amount you choose to donate, your support means more to me than you could ever imagine. Again, a tax-deductible receipt will be given for any donation over the cost of the print.
Though the shopping-cart software is wonderful, there are still a few glitches to iron out. For one, I am not given an email address on order. Since I would like to keep people informed on the shipping process and timeline, please send me an email via my Contact page, noting your name and email address, and I will be sure to send you updates on your order.
Excitingly enough, I did get my first online purchase! It went smoothly and I noted purchaser’s mailing address seemed to be about 4 blocks from my house. Being that her home was so close to mine, I decided to hand deliver her print, while testing out my phone GPS for the very first time. In getting a phone with GPS capabilities, my hope was that it would give me the freedom to walk alone safely, allowing me to gain some of the independence I had with Hope back again. My past “track record” for independent walks has not been very successful.
My Aide and I ventured out, following the directions indicated on the GPS. The route zigzaged back and forth, hitting every single major hill in the neighborhood. Then it stopped! It had enough, and wasn’t going to go anymore. We were definitely much farther than four blocks from my apartment, but seemingly nowhere near where near the final destination we were trying to reach!
My Aide then tried her Android’s GPS and it led us further down the windy roads. Suddenly I actually recognized a picket fence and tree–one of the landmarks my walking partner Cherrie and I have been working on so I can get to her house! I knew where we were and my GPS didn’t! The GPS led us down the next road to Cherrie’s house and we took the right at the horse sculptures (another landmark) and I spotted the red door on Cherrie’s house! Of course we weren’t in search of Cherrie’s house, and the GPS led us on…right into a dead end. Apparently even the newest GPS on the market can’t navigate in my neighborhood.
Because of my landmark practice, the trip was not completely futile. I said ‘hi’ to Adda my canine walking buddy and left the print with her so her mother could deliver it to the un-plotted house. Adda was terribly disappointed to learn she was being left in her kennel and not going on a fun outing with me.
Amazingly, due to my landmarks I was able to find my way back home without my broken GPS. While it is great that I was able to recognize landmarks, which is still an incredibly difficult thing for me due to my sensory processing difficulties, I was disappointed GPS was not a bigger help on this trip.
In the past, with Hope as my guide, I could wander to my hearts content and she could always somehow find our way back home. She was much better than a GPS. With this beautiful sunshine I’ve been wanting to go out for long, glorious walks, but find myself simply staring out my window missing her…
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